rhodium jewelry Archives - handfulofmia https://handfulofmia.com/tag/rhodium-jewelry/ Fri, 28 Aug 2020 05:57:58 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 https://i0.wp.com/handfulofmia.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/cropped-Logo@4x.png?fit=32%2C32&ssl=1 rhodium jewelry Archives - handfulofmia https://handfulofmia.com/tag/rhodium-jewelry/ 32 32 163171371 Quintessential Quartz Engagement Rings https://handfulofmia.com/2020/08/28/quintessential-quartz-engagement-rings/ https://handfulofmia.com/2020/08/28/quintessential-quartz-engagement-rings/#comments Fri, 28 Aug 2020 05:57:38 +0000 https://handfulofmia.com/?p=1897 Recently, I was with my friend Kayla and we went to the crystal shop. A stone that she introduced me to, that I’ve been thinking about since is Picasso Jasper. That of course, led me down the rabbit hole of finding jewelry that had a similar color palette of dark and light with a stark…

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Recently, I was with my friend Kayla and we went to the crystal shop. A stone that she introduced me to, that I’ve been thinking about since is Picasso Jasper.

That of course, led me down the rabbit hole of finding jewelry that had a similar color palette of dark and light with a stark sense of contrast. The engagement trend that no one is talking about, but frankly everyone should be talking about is rutilated quartz. 

Rutilated quartz contains needle-like inclusions that can look black, golden, or copper-like. While often in the gem world, inclusions mean that the price of the stone plummets…with this stone the inverse is true. The more beautiful the inclusions, the higher the stone can sell for. With a score of 7 on the Mohs Hardness Scale, it’s hard enough for daily wear, and also the stone is super unique.

I want to talk about price versus value with this stone as well. The naysayers can say, “oh, he got you a quartz ring? I guess he was too cheap for a diamond.” And let me give an emphatic no to the haters. While rutilated quartz itself may be considered a bargain stone, expert craftsmanship from a luxury jeweler is nothing to sniff at. Also speaking of haters, rutilated quartz is known for having properties of blocking negative energy, so really you’re killing two birds with one stone. So do you want a typical boring diamond so your ring can look “expensive” and your insipid relatives can approve of it or do you want the kind of stone that would make your little emo heart flutter? It’s a no brainer. 

These are my favorite picks for rutilated quartz rings that are oozing with alternative engagement ring goodness.

Bea Halo Ring with Black Rutilated Quartz – Anna Sheffield, $3800

I am obsessed with this ring. There, I said it. This ring reminds me deeply of my teenage self: Tim Burton-esque with a penchant for alternative rock and garage punk bands. And just because this ring reminds me of my emo screamo days doesn’t mean that it’s not refined, elegant, and fit for a modern-day bride. I mean who wouldn’t want to wear a Jackson Pollock painting on their finger? And I love the halo of white diamonds, it gives the ring just enough glamour without crossing the line into gaudy and high profile. This is a “say yes” ring for sure and any woman with a taste for unique and artistic jewelry would swoon over this ring. 

Florence Rutilated Quartz Ring – PeneliBelle, $1443

I have one word for this treat of a ring. Steampunk. How can you go wrong with gorgeous geometric shapes and a bit of mystery? I absolutely love the labyrinth of inclusions in the stone. The black rhodium plating makes it edgy and adds to the one of a kind antique factor. This ring makes me think of 1920’s flappers wearing fringe dresses with feather headdresses. It looks like it was yanked right out of the art deco era and given a home in modernity. Wearing a ring like this toes the line between the sophisticated styles of the past and the current pulse of the jewelry industry. The “Florence” ring tips its hat to the rings that came before it and boldly sets the stage for new rings to come. 

Petite Crossover Ring – Natalie Marie, $1876

When the abstract becomes tangible that’s when you know your design has achieved complete symbiosis. I love that the little scribbles and darting lines in the quartz are mirrored with the design of the band. I like the delicacy of the four claw setting and how the yellow gold makes a bold statement. This ring is decadent, delicate, and damn beautiful. Also to take this in another direction, the circular interwoven band reminds me of Jupiter’s rings. This ring is giving me strong outer space vibes but not in a Star Trek way. In a this-stone-looks-like-it-has-a-whole-universe-in-it kind of way. This ring is Alice in Wonderland wacky with the added bonus of being wallet-friendly. What’s not to love?

Let me know in the comments below, have I made you a believer? Could you commit to a rutilated quartz engagement ring or are you a die-hard diamond fan?

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Why Kassandra Lauren Gordon Thinks Ethical is a Buzzword https://handfulofmia.com/2020/08/20/why-kassandra-lauren-gordon-thinks-ethical-is-a-buzzword/ https://handfulofmia.com/2020/08/20/why-kassandra-lauren-gordon-thinks-ethical-is-a-buzzword/#comments Thu, 20 Aug 2020 22:26:11 +0000 https://handfulofmia.com/?p=1873 Kassandra Lauren Gordon is a multifaceted woman living an intersectional life. Both performance poet and jeweler, she navigates the cultural terrain of having Jamaican heritage and living in London. She marches to her own drumbeat and loves to listen to the Arctic Monkeys, Oasis, Chloe x Halle, Beenie Man and Bounty Killer. She also finds…

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Kassandra Lauren Gordon is a multifaceted woman living an intersectional life. Both performance poet and jeweler, she navigates the cultural terrain of having Jamaican heritage and living in London. She marches to her own drumbeat and loves to listen to the Arctic Monkeys, Oasis, Chloe x Halle, Beenie Man and Bounty Killer. She also finds herself defying expectations with both her jewelry and her appearance. Because of her traditionally white-sounding name, often stockists are confused when they see her in person. In Kassandra’s words, they do a “double-take.” While her jewelry is expected to look deeply African and tribal, she often gets labeled as “sophisticated” which has led to confusion from customers and stockists alike. 


Classically trained at the University of the Arts London, she loves jewelry and considers herself to be a “jewelry head.” Kassandra got started in jewelry by exploring the market scene (her favorites were Spitalfields and Camden Market) and eventually transitioned into precious metals. Her love for jewelry does not center solely around beads and materials, she also empathizes with the Black jewelry community and their unique plight. As of June, she launched a hardship fund for Black jewelers in the UK that has raised over $24,000. The money is intended to be distributed to 10 Black jewelers in the form of grants. If you would like to donate, you can do so here. I hope you enjoy this interview as much as I did!

Amiah Taylor: Do you think Black children are encouraged to become goldsmiths and jewelers?

Kassandra Gordon: This is the thing, people have to look at the journey and no one has done any research. This is why I wanted to do the fund of qualitative research.

I’m trained as a social researcher from my time at university. We’re not there yet these are all just random stories. This is just my individual story. So when I was at school, I didn’t know about silversmiths. I didn’t know what a goldsmith was.

Everyone wanted me to be a social worker because I don’t know how it is in the U.S. but usually, there’s a lot of overrepresentation of social workers who are Black. That’s what I grew up in, everyone wanted to be a nurse, a hairdresser, a social worker, or perhaps an athlete. I’m not about that life. The short answer is no, I don’t think people are exposed. And the Black people who do, do jewelry there’s an expectation for them to do hip hop jewelry like grills.

AT: Has your experience of harassment around collecting supplies affected your style of jewelry? I noticed that your style is very minimalist. 

KG: When I described that in my open letter, that was when I first started probably 5 or 6 years ago. People are starting to recognize me as a jeweler but when I first started it was very unwelcoming. It was assumed that I was lost or that I wasn’t a jeweler and I would get followed around.

Sometimes when you’re looking for gemstones, it’s a small area, and suppliers would just hold the gemstones and piece it to me while the other white clients could hold things and explore as they pleased. Someone accused me of taking a gemstone and I was very upset. I was like “why would I take a gemstone?” And the gemstone was like fluorite, which is 2 or 3 pounds. So it was like, you’re going to try and say I took something that’s 3 dollars? The jewelry trade, especially Hatton Garden, is all about trust. So it took me a while, it took me years for people to begin trusting me. 

Rhodium Black Moon Earrings, $329.
Gold Vermeil Jupiter Earrings, $329.

AT: You referred to the jewelry industry as monolithic. What do you credit for the lack of diversity?

KG: So number 1 is visibility. When you think of the term BAME (Black, Asian, and Minority Ethnic), some people might think of Chinese people or Middle Eastern people or Jewish people. But what’s different is that they are well established. They have their own networks in the jewelry industry, but not Black jewelers that I know of. They’re not as visible. 

It’s pretty heartbreaking that the jewelry industry doesn’t care because they didn’t put the resources out there to show compassion. No one wondered, “why are there no Black people in our courses? Why are there no Black people in our trade shows?” With trade shows, it’s frustrating, I can’t be the only Black jeweler there. I don’t want to be seen strictly as a “Black jeweler.” I just want to be seen as a jeweler and for my merit. I’m not an exotic kind of thing. At times it’s annoying because I don’t always make jewelry that’s “Afro-centric.”

AT: Just because you happen to be Black doesn’t mean you have to make Afro-centric jewelry. You’re allowed to have diverse interests and you don’t want to be pigeonholed.

KG: Absolutely. I’m pigeonholed with Black people as well because Black people don’t really buy from me. And I want to put it out in the universe, I’m not afraid of blackness. My parents are Jamaican and Rastafarian, so I’ve had very strong pan-African roots. 

My jewelry collections are all about space and I like space. So why can’t I do it? Black people will say to me, “why don’t you do Nefertiti and things like that?” But I’ve done it before and you’ve never bought them. So you like me but at the same time, you don’t. You want to invest in me and at the same time, you don’t. I don’t want to be in a box, I want everyone to buy from me. With my work, I’m diverse. I use white models, I use black models and I even use myself. 

I try to cater to everybody but I’m learning in the industry that you can’t please everybody.

Model pictured wearing the Io Grande Pendant Necklace and Petite Jupiter Pendant Necklace, which are $448 and $316 respectively.

AT: In your Instagram Live, you said that we might be over-relying on old models to make a change. What models of change do you find to be paternalistic or outdated?

KG: You know what I just had an epiphany yesterday. I keep saying the jewelry industry but what does that mean? Usually, I mean, the archaic bodies of jewelry that have been around for centuries. It’s the emerging designers that are driving this change. And I’m thinking, “why am I waiting for whatever archaic jewelry body to make a change? If they cared, they would’ve done it.” Why am I waiting? 

4 weeks ago, I had about 1000 followers. All of a sudden, I’ve got 2000 followers. The followers don’t matter. I’m just trying to tell you about the jump. I had a very small following and I made noise about wealth and the system. People have contacted me from India and the U.S. and it’s interesting because I thought my voice didn’t matter. But it seems like it resonates with a lot of people. A lot of people understand that a conversation needs to be had and people want change. All of these people followed me and donated to the fund and responded to the open letter. It seems like it’s the first time we’ve had a diverse inclusion conversation at the global scale in the jewelry industry.

AT: Do you have a favorite quote by a Black leader or celebrity?

KG: “In a racist society, it is not enough to be non-racist, we must be anti-racist.” That’s Angela Davis. I feel that in my bones and that’s everything that I’ve done. I don’t just moan. I want to be proactive. With CO-VID 19, they acted quickly for an unknown entity or disease. They made sacrifices for this unknown disease. We should act the same here. That’s where I’m at.

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